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How to make your Morning Routine Successful

I’ve written multiple times about how creating a successful morning routine can significantly impact your productivity, mood, and overall well-being. The key to a successful morning is a combination of thoughtful planning, discipline, and positive habits that set the tone for the rest of your day. Here’s a comprehensive guide with specific ideas and examples to help you craft a morning routine that leads to a successful day.

1. The Importance of a Morning Routine

A well-structured morning routine helps you start your day on the right foot, reduces stress, and increases productivity. By establishing a set of habits that you follow every morning, you can create a sense of stability and control over your day. Moreover, a morning routine can enhance your mental and physical health, setting a positive tone that carries throughout the day.

2. The Night Before: Preparation is Key

A successful morning starts the night before. Preparing for the next day can significantly reduce morning chaos and decision fatigue.

  • Plan Your Day: Spend a few minutes each evening reviewing your schedule for the next day. Make a to-do list prioritizing the most important tasks. This helps you wake up with a clear sense of purpose.
  • Set Out Clothes: Choose and lay out your outfit for the next day. This simple step can save you time and reduce stress in the morning.
  • Prepare Your Breakfast: If you have a busy schedule, consider preparing breakfast the night before. Overnight oats or pre-made smoothies are excellent options.
  • Limit Screen Time: Avoid screens at least an hour before bed to ensure a good night’s sleep. The blue light from devices can interfere with your sleep quality.

3. Wake Up Early

Waking up early gives you a head start. It allows you to have some quiet time before the demands of the day begin. Aim to wake up at least an hour before you need to start your day.

  • Consistent Wake-Up Time: Try to wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. This helps regulate your body’s internal clock.
  • Gradual Wake-Up: Consider using a sunrise alarm clock that gradually increases light, simulating a natural sunrise to wake you up gently.

4. Hydrate First Thing

Rehydrate your body after hours of sleep. Drinking a glass of water in the morning kickstarts your metabolism and helps your body wake up.

  • Add Lemon: Did you know? Adding a slice of lemon to your water can enhance flavor and provide a boost of vitamin C, aiding your immune system.
  • Keep Water by Your Bed: Place a glass of water on your nightstand so you can hydrate immediately upon waking up.

5. Practice Mindfulness or Meditation

Starting your day with mindfulness can reduce stress and improve focus. Meditation, deep breathing exercises, or a few minutes of quiet reflection can help you set a positive tone for the day.

  • Guided Meditation Apps: Apps like Headspace or Calm offer guided meditations tailored to different needs and time frames.
  • Deep Breathing Exercises: Practice deep breathing exercises for a few minutes. Inhale deeply through your nose, hold for a few seconds, and exhale slowly through your mouth.

6. Move Your Body

Physical activity in the morning can boost your energy levels and mood. It doesn’t have to be a full workout; even gentle stretching or a short walk can be beneficial.

  • Morning Yoga: Yoga can be a gentle way to wake up your body and mind. There are many online resources and apps with routines tailored for the morning. Track Yoga app is a great tool here.
  • Short Workouts: If time allows, a 20-30 minute workout can significantly boost your energy levels. Consider activities like jogging, cycling, or a quick HIIT session.
  • Stretching Routine: A 5-10 minute stretching routine can improve flexibility and reduce tension.

7. Healthy Breakfast

A nutritious breakfast fuels your body and brain. Aim for a balanced meal with protein, healthy fats, and whole grains.

  • Quick and Nutritious Options:
  • Greek yogurt with nuts and berries.
  • Whole grain toast with avocado and a poached egg.
  • A smoothie with spinach, banana, almond milk, and protein powder.
  • Overnight Preparations: Prepare overnight oats or chia pudding the night before for a quick grab-and-go option.
  • For those who like to practice Intermittent Fasting like myself, consider my Cinnabutter Coffee tip.

8. Personal Development

Allocate time for personal growth. This could involve reading, journaling, or learning something new.

  • Reading: Spend 10-20 minutes reading a book that inspires or educates you.
  • Journaling: Reflect on your goals, express gratitude, or simply jot down your thoughts. Journaling can clarify your mind and set a positive intention for the day.
    • My “AM Journals” are kept in an online Google Doc and I usually end up with 200+ pages a year of journal notes – when I look back and review it provides so many insights that I can actively use to improve my life.
  • Skill Development: Use this time to learn something new, like practicing a language on Duolingo or taking a short online course.

9. Plan and Review Your Day

Take a few minutes to review your day’s schedule and prioritize tasks. This helps you focus on what’s important and avoid feeling overwhelmed.

  • Top 3 Priorities: Identify your top three priorities for the day and focus on completing them first. I like using Tim Ferriss’ “Three to Thrive” method.
  • Time Blocking: Allocate specific time slots for different tasks to ensure you stay on track.

10. Positive Affirmations

Starting your day with positive affirmations can boost your confidence and mindset. Affirmations are simple, positive statements that you repeat to yourself.

  • Examples of Affirmations:
  • “I am capable and strong.”
  • “Today is going to be a productive day.”
  • “I am grateful for the opportunities this day brings.”
  • Creating Your Own: Tailor affirmations to your personal goals and needs.
  • As I’ve written about before, affirmations have changed my life many times over.

11. Limit Distractions

Minimize distractions to maintain your morning routine’s effectiveness. This can include reducing screen time and setting boundaries.

  • No Phone Zone: Avoid checking your phone immediately upon waking up. Emails and social media can wait until you’ve completed your morning routine.
  • Focus on the Present: Concentrate on each activity in your routine rather than multitasking. Mindfulness in your morning tasks can set a calm tone for the day.

12. Consistency and Flexibility

Consistency is crucial for establishing a successful morning routine. However, it’s also important to be flexible and adapt when necessary.

  • Stick to the Plan: Try to follow your routine every day, even on weekends. This helps reinforce the habits you’re building.
  • Adapt When Needed: Life is unpredictable, and sometimes you’ll need to adjust your routine. Don’t be too rigid; adapt and move forward.

Example Morning Routine

Here’s an example of a morning routine incorporating the elements discussed:

  1. 6:00 AM – Wake Up: Get out of bed and drink a glass of water with lemon.
  2. 6:05 AM – Mindfulness: Spend 10 minutes meditating using a guided app.
  3. 6:15 AM – Exercise: Do a 20-minute yoga session or a quick workout.
  4. 6:35 AM – Shower and Get Ready: Refresh and dress for the day.
  5. 6:50 AM – Breakfast: Enjoy a healthy meal, such as Greek yogurt with fruits and nuts.
  6. 7:10 AM – Personal Development: Read a book or journal for 15 minutes.
  7. 7:25 AM – Plan Your Day: Review your schedule and set your top three priorities.
  8. 7:35 AM – Positive Affirmations: Spend a few minutes reciting affirmations.
  9. 7:40 AM – Start Your Day: Begin your first task of the day with focus and clarity.

Tips for Success

  • Start Small: If creating a full morning routine feels overwhelming, start with one or two habits and gradually add more.
  • Be Patient: Building a new routine takes time. Be patient with yourself and allow for adjustments as needed.
  • Reflect and Adjust: Regularly reflect on what’s working and what isn’t. Adjust your routine to better fit your needs and lifestyle.

Give the Morning Routine a try today.

Crafting a successful morning routine involves thoughtful planning, consistent practice, and a willingness to adapt. By incorporating hydration, mindfulness, physical activity, a healthy breakfast, personal development, and planning into your morning, you set a positive tone for the rest of your day. Remember, the key to success is consistency, but also being flexible enough to adapt when life gets in the way. Start small, be patient, and enjoy the benefits of a well-structured morning routine.

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Morning Routine – The Problem

Most AM Rituals require 2-4 hours to complete – most working men and women don’t have this kind of time in the morning. Do you?

Morning Routine – The Solution

The SMART Morning Routine can be completed in a little as 30 minutes and still provide the majority of benefits of longer rituals. How does that sound?

The Dilemma of The Working Class

Morning Routines are all the rage these days – Tim Ferris, Hal Elrod, Benjamin Hardy and many more profess their greatness. Quite frankly there are a LOT of great AM Rituals on the web and I’m thankful to these key opinion leaders who’ve shared their ideas.

Unfortunately what I noticed is that many of the most popular morning routines require a long time to complete – that’s a big problem for working men and women like me who still have 9–5 type jobs, families, and a host of demands on our time.

So what do you do when you still want to enjoy the benefits of a morning routine but don’t have the time?

Simple – create a “S-M-A-R-T” Morning Routine.

The SMART Morning Routine is an AM Ritual for the rest of us :  one that fits our busy lives AND still provides us the key benefits of the Morning Routine exercise.

Don’t get me wrong, I would love to be in a position where I can spend 2–4 hours every morning turning myself into the Uber-Human of my dreams. Who wouldn’t want to meditate for 30–60 minutes, workout for an hour, spend another hour thinking about a bucket list item, spend another 1.5 hours being creative, and taking time to enjoy a nutritious breakfast? I’d love the luxury of being able to do all those things, and if I did,  I’m 100% certain my life would improve.

But let’s face it, most of us ‘worker bees’ are not yet in a position to spend 4 hours each morning on our AM Rituals — we need routines which are both realistic and achievable for us. We need a Morning Routine that is S-M-A-R-T (specific/simple, measurable, achievable, realistic, and time-bound).

In this article I’ll share my exact plan for how to create your own SMART Morning Routine. 

Morning Routine – The Video

The SMART Morning Routine – A Summary

The SMART Morning Routine involves starting the day with as little as 30 minutes of alone time designed to take your productivity to the next level and beyond.

It’s kind of like Abraham Lincoln’s advice about chopping down a tree (you remember that saying, right?)

“Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I’ll spend the first four sharpening my ax.”

In this case, the ax to be sharpened is YOU – and we’ll do it in a lot less time too!

By taking just a half hour so-so and doing these two big bucket items, the SMART Morning Routine leaves you a ‘complete’ person, eager to attack the day because you have already completed a few tasks that made you feel great AND you have a clear-eyed vision on what you want to do. Thus you can immediately move forward — already in a highly productive mindset. You feel like you are already a success and that confidence is half the battle to a winning the day.

The SMART Morning Routine

The SMART Morning Routine Put Me Back on Track

I had a big problem last year.

I let myself get uber-busy in with “busybody work” and for a time it took me off my life’s path. Thankfully I read a book called Tools of Titans by Tim Ferris and the wisdom there set me straight (Thanks, Tim!).

I was somebody who already had a morning routine, but over the years it got less and less productive because it lacked balance (it was essentially all work-focused and not ‘me’ focused). I used Tim’s ideas to reset my routine and eventually develop the “SMART AM Ritual.”

Now, by consistently completing the SMART Morning Routine, I’m supercharging my productivity (for work, play, and life) while also actively making myself a better person again.

The result: I’m back on track to My Life’s Journey.

The SMART Morning Routine

My S-M-A-R-T Morning Routine involves 6-7 steps and 30-60 minutes depending on how I feel each morning. It’s highly flexible so I encourage you to modify it to meet your own goals. 

Here’s what I do…

1 — Control…Something

(Time Investment: 1–2 minutes)

One little thing — it doesn’t have to be perfect, and it doesn’t matter what it is — just get it done.

It could be making a bed, it could be organizing your desk, it could be anything.

It takes all of 1–2 minutes but…it’s one thing DONE.

This is especially helpful for Type-A personalities — when you can control what you can control, and get that 1 easy take completed first thing in the morning, it becomes a success (dare I say “S-M-A-R-T?”) building block that propels you forward into the day — and it makes you feel like “Yes, I can do this!”

And just like that Task #1 is done!

2 — Prime the Body

(Time Investment: 3–5 minutes)

First I do a round of Sun Salutations — this simple yoga routine takes just a few minutes and starts the process of connecting the body with the mind. BTW if you are new to Yoga and want some guidance, there is a great FREE app called “Track Yoga” — it will guide you through the Sun Salutations (with pointers on how to do it right). As a side note, Track Yoga is one of the recommended tools in my 2018 Essential Guide to Awesomeness

Bonus Tip: Although I’d love to be able to go outside to do my Sun Salutations, that’s not realistic for me yet so I have a couple pics of sunrises hanging on my office wall — they are pics I took myself and they bring me joy by reminding me of special moments in my life. Here’s one…

Next, I do 10 reps of something — pushups, jumping jacks, air punches. Just 10. It’s not a workout, it’s just to get the body ready to go — kind of like priming an engine before you start it. You’ll be surprised how this gets the blood flowing in the right direction.

(OK, for you Seinfeld fans, I’d be remiss if I didn’t give a shout out to Kenny Bania who famously said on the show, “I start out with curls. That’s good for the bicep. I do 10 reps, 2 sets…” After all, everything relates back to Seinfeld, right? Apparently even the Morning Routine).

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3 — Add some Caffeine

(Time Investment: 0)

One cup of black coffee (with cinnamon) does the trick for me. It allows me to keep my intermittent (read: 14–16 hour) fasting going while giving me the energy I need to move through the morning. (Why cinnamon, you wonder? Cinnamon is a natural blood sugar regulator).

This single cup of coffee gives me energy that lasts until I break my fast around 10 am (from about 6 pm the night before). Quick note — the time ‘cost’ is zero because you drink the coffee while doing the remaining tasks.

4 — Prime the Mind

(Time Investment: 10–15 minutes)

I’m all for wisdom. I try to be consciously open to acquiring wisdom from trusted sources (and that includes my own mind). Ever since reading Tony’s Awaken the Giant Within years ago, I’ve been a fan of journaling. I believe in Tony’s adage…

“If you life is worth living it’s worth recording.”

Unfortunately in recent years I let the ‘chores of life’ get in the way of my journaling — foolishly believing that “I didn’t have time to journal” (ah, big misconception — as the Buddhist would say, ‘if you don’t have time for journaling, then you need to journal right now”). Thankfully Tim’s Tools of Titans book reminded me of the benefits and now I’m back with a vengeance.

The Morning Journal is a KEY Part of the AM Ritual

My current version of AM Journal varies depending on the day.

First I write in my journal.

  • Sometimes I remind myself what am I grateful for (opportunities, something from yesterday, something beautiful I see, etc). Sometimes it’s thinking about specific positive-focused questions like…
    • “What would make today great?”
    • “What would set me up for success?”
  • Other times I write to just clear my mind of a problem or even complain a bit about something to release my frustration (it helps!). When I do this exercise I try to focus on ‘free form’ writing — don’t think, just write — let your mind release its contents (kind of like when Hooper and Chief opened up the guts of the shark on “Jaws”). You never know what you’ll find, but it’s amazing what’s in there. (And no, I haven’t found a license plate from LA yet).
  • Other times I don’t write in my journal, but instead, exercise what Tim calls the “Idea Muscle” — basically think of a question like…
    • “What Makes me Content?”
    • “What’s my Bucket List now?”
    • “How can I better focus my time to spend more of it on my life goals?”
    • “How can I spend money to save time?”
    • And then think of 10+ quick answers/ideas for these questions.

After the journal writing, I think of 3 Affirmations for the day.

These are one liners that I want to speak to myself that focus me for the day. Here are some from yesterday…

  • “I am vibrantly healthy in mind, body, and spirit.
  • I am happy — I smile a lot and am content with life.
  • I don’t need lots of money, possessions, or career accolades to be happy — I don’t need recognition from others to be happy — I am happy because I am alive, my family loves me, and the world is a beautiful place with lots of things to do.”
  • If you want to know more about the power of affirmations, check out my article: https://thathelpfuldad.wpmudev.host/79-affirmations-that-will-transform-your-reality/

Finally, I incorporate Tim/Tony’s “3 To Thrive” productivity tool.

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What is Three to Thrive?

  • Three to Thrive involves writing down 3 action items that are the most important things for me this day. 3 items that, if I accomplish these but nothing else, will still make the day a ‘win.’
  •  It goes without saying that the sooner in the day you start working on your 3 items, the better chance you have to be successful — having this focus early on in the day, can set you up for success.

Once I have this done (and it sounds like a lot but only takes about 10–15 minutes) then I really start focusing on my breathing.

I began this a bit earlier with the sun salutations but now I take it to the next level — breathing deeply while repeating my affirmations (3+ times for each one) and then continuing the breathing exercise while I visualize the “3 to Thrive” actions as already completed.

Let’s spend a moment on this because it’s kind of important. It’s one thing to write down a few affirmations and goals for the day (and if you are not already doing this then just adding them to your morning routine can make a difference), but if you want to get to the next level, then…

Just as importantly as identifying these affirmations and goals, is taking a few minutes to visualize yourself ‘living’ them.

Here’s what I mean:

  • For the affirmations, use the breath to make the affirmations feel real inside you, as a part of you, nay as ALL of you. Be the affirmation.
  • For the goals, take some time to focus on each goal, understand why it’s important to you, and then use the breath to get your mind to focus on what it will feel like after you have achieved your goals for the day (“I’m Batman!”).
  • This psycho-cybernetics step is one of the keys to success because by putting yourself in the ‘already achieved’ mindset half the work is done — the first step on your journey has already been taken, the rest is just continuing the inertia in the same direction until you cross the finish line again (a finish line you’ve already crossed in your mind). You’ll be surprised how this little tweak in the process can rocket your accomplishments to success because of the consistency is adds to your productivity!
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5 — Prime the Soul

(Time Investment: 5–10 minutes)

While continuing the breathing routine, I’ll now complete the process of connecting the body and mind with the soul by ‘seeking wisdom’ from external sources. Here I like to read a chapter from Proverbs and one of The Gospels, and then a verse from The Tao Te Ching. All the while I am focusing on calm breathing.

It’s kind of like an active meditation experience. It’s the top of the pyramid of the ‘priming’ stage and makes me feel connected to (as Douglas Adams would say), Life, the Universe, and Everything.

6 — Pursue Your Passion NOW

(Time Investment: 10–30 minutes)

Like many of you I have a passion, one of my Legacy Life goals is writing.

It’s a passion that brings me contentment, excitement, and makes life fun.

How to Create a Dream Book

What do I write about?

So far I’ve written a biblical ‘end of the world’ novel called The Last Temptation of John, a non-fiction book on how Minecraft teaches life lessons with my son Jax called Diary of a Minecraft Dad, and a non-fiction book about investing in options with my friend Michael Thomsett (the world’s #1 writer on options education) called The Options Alchemist.

I’m currently writing 2 more books. One is a book about the life lessons I’ve learned from my Yorkshire terrier Sassy (who passed away from the world much too soon) — her book is called A Life Worth Living. The other is a series of fantasy novels (think JRR Tolkien meets The Bible meets conspiracy theories) called A Grim Future?

If you’d like to read any of them, I’d be happy to give you a complimentary copy — just use my contact form and let me know which one you’d like to read.

The point is that even though writing is very important to me, I kept allowing it to take second place to the typical day-to-day tasks that we worker bees face all too often.

As a result, my writing floundered.

Luckily I realized that if I add it to my morning routine, I can make sure I get a chance to do it every day. Here again, I’m borrowing wisdom from Tim Ferris..

Even if I only write 2 ‘crappy’ pages per day it’s still a win.

Why? because it gets my writing muscle exercised and gives me a chance to write a lot more too. Even if I only write for 10 minutes, I can still get 2 crappy pages in — and that’s a win because it means I’m still making progress, 2 pages at a time. Better yet, I’ve found that just getting started often leads me to continue to write beyond just 10 minutes — sometimes I write more during the AM Ritual, sometimes I write later in the day. 

The point is that I get so excited by the process of writing every day that I stay ‘in the zone’ far more often than I ever did before. That’s an even bigger win!

What’s YOUR Passion?

Whatever it may be, make sure your SMART Morning Routine includes some time for it. 

7 — 3 To Thrive Completed?

(Time Investment: 2–3 minutes)

This is actually a question I circle back to later in the day.

I like to come back to my AM Journal at the end of the day (or I sometimes do it as part of the AM Journal the following day) and evaluate how I did — just a quick sentence or 3 to follow-up on the day and see if I did what I set out to do or if I missed the mark (and why), so that I do better tomorrow.

This is the full circle technique that is the beginning of the Am Ritual for the next day of the journey.

And that, my friends, is the SMART Morning Routine?

What do you think?

Concerned about your time?

I can appreciate that. Here’s my advice.

First off, if you are keeping track the total time investment for the SMART Morning Routine is 31–63 minutes. Surely that is realistic and achievable for you, right?

If you do not currently have this time in your busy schedule, then I would challenge you to do what I did to make time: as cliche as it sounds, all you have to do is get up 30–60 minutes earlier.

I’ll be honest with you — for the first 47 years of my life, I hated getting up early. If I was up before 7 am I was grumpy. But, I decided to go all in on the Morning Ritual Tim suggested, and to give myself time, I started getting up at 630am.

What do you know, it worked for me. Now I am so in love with this routine (because I can SEE the results) that I usually get up at 6 am — and I usually can’t wait to get out of bed!

You’ll be surprised at how much your productivity for the entire day improves when you invest just 30–60 minutes in some morning “ME” time.

Following this process has led me to dramatic improvements in my productivity of important tasks (AKA the 3 to Thrive items), my writing (much more regular), reduction in stress, and giving me a reason to get up earlier to attack the day.

I’m grateful to have been exposed to this wisdom and I wanted to share it with you too in the hopes that it will make your life better too. Obviously, your routine won’t be the same as mine, but perhaps I’ve given you some ideas to add to your own ritual. If so, that’s a win in my book.

The SMART Morning Routine – It’s Not Rocket Science

No, but it’s simple, it’s quick, it’s incredibly easy to do AND if you follow this plan consistently, it can make a real difference for you — even if you are still a busy worker bee like me.

That’s the measure of true wisdom in my book — practical solutions that you can use to make meaningful change in your life.

The SMART Morning Routine worked for me. It can work for you too!

Give it a try and let me know if it helps you. 

Small Changes Lead to BIG Results

One of my meditation mentors today wrote about this topic and I wanted to share his wisdom with you…

“Far too many people stress out when given a goal that challenges them to be more than they think they are right now. Their stress blocks the flow of their energy and leads to poor performance.”

Instead of stressing out and fearing that you’ll never be able to climb the mountain of your larger goal, why not give yourself a chance by focusing on a series of small, achievable steps along the way to your larger goal. In addition, if you use simple, clear, open-ended goals focused on constant improvement (“kaizen”), then you’ll find yourself climbing up that mountain towards  your goal without tension.

Remember

BIG steps forward are really many small improvements compiled over time.

 

smallgoalsWhy not try this?

Make your objective in life to be improving a little bit every single day.

Become a better YOU today than you were yesterday and your future will be brighter indeed!