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King Solomon’s Money Management Tips – Part 1

Today’s lesson is about King Solomon’s Money Management Tips — in this article we’ll explore some of the wise ruler’s thoughts on wealth, including the importance of financial education and having a plan for managing your hard earned money.

Life Lesson #22: Don’t be a fool with your hard-earned money

Look familiar?

Editor’s Note: This is Part 1 of our mini series on Solomon’s Money’s Management Tips and a larger series of articles on using The Wisdom of Solomon to change your life.


An Ounce of Wisdom…

Before we get started, let me give you an important tip – this page is filled with numerous quotes from King Solomon and since he’s widely regarded as the wisest man who ever lived, it’s probably a good idea for all of us to pay attention to what Solomon is saying.

Sounds interesting…

Quick tip: make note of the references to Solomon’s quotes, then do yourself a favor and go back and read them – again and again and again – because the more you make his wisdom a part of your life, the more you can call upon it when you need it most. Make sense?


It Starts with Caution…

There’s no point in discussing how to acquire wealth, without first talking about something even more important than making money — having the wisdom to know what to do with it once you get it.

As Solomon said…

“What good is money in the hands of a fool since he has no desire to get wisdom?” (Prov 17:16).

So what happens if you get some money but you don’t have any wisdom?

Solomon has answered that for us. Consider the following warnings:

  1. Prov 21:20 “In the house of the wise are stores of [wealth], but a fool devours all he has.”
  2. Prov 14:1 “The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears her’s down with her own hands.”
  3. Prov 23:19-21 “Be wise and keep your heart on the right path. Don’t make friends with gluttons, they’ll make you poor.”

As you can see, all three of these are pretty much saying the same thing – if you get money, don’t be a fool and squander it.

Apparently that lesson was so important to Solomon that he felt the need to repeat himself multiple times to make sure we pay attention to it!

Be sure to keep those few words of caution in mind as you continue through these lessons, otherwise you may find yourself lamenting this little tidbit from the king as well…

“Cast but a glance at riches and they are gone, for they will surely sprout wings and fly away [on the fool]” (Prov 23:5).

This is fun!

Now lest you think I am just here to preach to you, please understand that is not the case. I’ll be the first to admit that I made all 3 of these mistakes in the past because I foolishly believed I could figure out everything on my own and didn’t need to listen to the advice of others. That wasn’t smart and the consequence of that foolishness is that I lost a LOT of money I shouldn’t have.

The good news for me is that I learned some valuable lessons in the process, but the even better news for YOU is that you can learn these lessons without having to lose money. It’s your choice…

Do you want to learn the easy way (by listening to this wisdom and applying it to grow and protect your money) or do you want to learn the hard way (by having to pay money to learn as you go)?


Solomon Says “Have a Plan”

In Part 1 of this series on King Solomon’s Money Management, we’ll talk about the importance of having a plan when it comes to managing your money.

If you’ve learned anything about me yet from reading my other lessons, you should know by now how much I value a good plan. As we’ve talked about in the lesson called The Power of Planning, it’s important to understand that…

“A goal without a plan is just a dream.”

Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

What that means to YOU in the context of this lesson is pretty simple…

You may have a goal in life to build wealth, and it’s great to have a goal, but remember, if you don’t actually have a plan for exactly HOW you’re going to get all that money, then it’s unlikely you’ll get all the money you desire, and worse yet, you may end up in the poor house instead.

Don’t just take it from me, let’s see what King Solomon had to say about this too. Did you know that Solomon was big on having a plan regarding money, both when it comes to acquiring it, as well as managing it?

Check these powerful life lessons

1-Educate yourself

(Prov 16:16) “It is better to choose wisdom than gold, to choose understanding before silver.”

As we talked about above, money without wisdom isn’t going to last long in the hands of a fool.

Don’t be that fool.

2-Build wealth over time

(Prov 24:3-4) “By wisdom a house is built and through understanding it it established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.”

Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day. You need time to build wealth – and you need wisdom, understanding, and knowledge to make it grow.

3-Plan your purchases

(Prov 24:27) “Finish your outdoor work and get your fields ready, after that build your house.”

In other words don’t go making major purchases on a car or house until you’ve built up some savings and made a plan for how you’re going to pay for everything.

4-Manage your money carefully

(Prov 27:23-27) “Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever, and a crown is not secure for all generations. When hay is removed and new growth appears and the grass from the hills is gathered in, the lambs will provide you with clothing, and the goats with the price of a field. You will have plenty of goats’ milk to feed you and our family.”

Be prudent with your money. Use a budget to keep track of your income and expenses. Know how to make your money work for you.

Know the risks associated with money and understand that it’s much easier to lose money than it is to make it, BUT if you manage it well, then it can make your family’s life easier.

5-Live beneath your means

(Prov 13:7) “One man pretends to be rich yet has nothing, another pretends to be poor yet has great wealth.”

You know the cliche about ‘trying to keep up on the Joneses” – don’t be foolish and try to show off for your neighbors by flaunting your wealth or always thinking you need to have the latest and greatest toy – that’s a sure path to the poor house.

Have the wisdom to show restraint on what you buy.

Use your money for what you need, not just all the things you THINK you want because if you allow yourself to become a habitual spender you’ll never be satisfied.

Pray that God will give you the wisdom to cherish what you already have and not be so focused on what you don’t have (and probably don’t need anyway) – that will save you a lot of money).


Don’t Wait, Use This Wisdom Today

Your ToDo for Today…

Look at the 5 tips from Solomon’s Money Management Planning Section above and pick just 1 item that you can TAKE ACTION on right now.

For example…

  1. Is there something you want to buy?
    • If so, make a plan for how you’re going to pay for that purchase.
  2. Perhaps you’ve realized that it’s time to increase your financial education?
  3. Maybe you’re ready to sit down write out a long-term vision of what you want to use your money for?
    • Pull out that paper and start writing!

Any of these are great ideas, but nothing is going to happen if you don’t DO something about it, so get started now…


Solomon’s Money Management Tips – Continue Reading?

That’s Part 1 of our series on Solomon’s Money Management.

In Parts 2 and 3, we’ll get tips from Solomon about his methods for acquiring money, the importance of saving, his thoughts on using debt, and more.

Read the next lessons here…

7 Pillars for Making Money
5 Destructive Money Myths

12 Proverbs That Will Make Your Life Better – The Wisdom of Solomon

Proverbs – The Wisdom of Solomon

Proverbs is one of my favorite books in The Bible – it’s filled with the Wisdom of Solomon and I’ve written numerous articles about all the great wisdom tidbits from this book that you can use to live a Legacy Life.

Today I thought we’d try something new – A Picture Essay that shares The Wisdom of Solomon and Proverbs. For each picture, I’ll provide one quote from Proverbs and where applicable a link for further reading on the topic.

Editor’s Note: This article will expand over time as I add more pictures to the essay so be sure to bookmark this page and check back often.


Proverbs 16:3

Proverbs 16:3 “Commit to the Lord whatever you do and your plans will succeed.”

Proverbs 15:32

Proverbs 15:32 “He who ignores discipline despises himself, but whoever heeds correction gains understanding.”

Read more: https://thathelpfuldad.com/being-disciplined-now-can-lead-to-good-things-later-if-you-learn-from-it/

Proverbs 15:22

Proverbs 15:22 “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisors they succeed.”

Read more: https://thathelpfuldad.com/the-value-of-advice/

Proverbs 16:9

Proverbs 16:9 “In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.”

zeal without knowledge

Proverbs 19:2 “It is not good to have zeal without knowledge, nor to be hasty and miss the way.”

Read more: https://thathelpfuldad.com/you-cant-rush-greatness/


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Solomon's Wisdom


Proverbs 12:11

Proverbs 12:11 “He who works his land will have abundant food, but he who chases fantasies lack judgement.”

Better to be a nobody with a servant

Proverbs 12:9 “Better to be a nobody with a servant than pretend to be somebody and have nothing.”

Read more: https://thathelpfuldad.com/king-solomons-tips-on-money-management-part-1/

pride goes before a fall

Proverbs 16:18 “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”

Proverbs 9:9

Proverbs 9:9 “Instruct a wise man and he will be wiser still.”

Read more: https://thathelpfuldad.com/where-do-you-find-wisdom/

Proverbs 17:17

Proverbs 17:17 “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

Read more: https://thathelpfuldad.com/how-to-make-more-friends/

Proverbs 16:16

Proverbs 16:16 “How much better it is to choose wisdom than gold, to choose understanding than silver.”

Read More: https://thathelpfuldad.com/get-wisdom-get-wealth-the-solomon-series/

Proverbs 18:2

Proverbs 18:2 “A fool finds no pleasure in understanding, but delights in airing his own opinion.”


More about Proverbs and the Wisdom of Solomon

https://thathelpfuldad.com/the-purpose-of-proverbs-to-help-you-make-the-world-a-better-place/

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Advice: How to Accept and Give Good Advice

The first step towards gaining wisdom is to recognize the value of advice.

Our life lesson today comes to us from King Solomon who said “Listen to advice and accept instruction and in the end you will be wise” (Proverbs 19:20).


What This Means to YOU…

If you’re like me, you have people trying to give you advice every day.

Unfortunately, if you’re like me, that means you probably also find it difficult to listen to that advice!

If that’s true, it could mean you’re letting a great deal of knowledge just slip through your fingers and that’s a problem because it means you’re making your life harder than it needs to be.

Don’t let that happen to you – learn to accept advice and allow this wisdom to improve your life.

3 Ways to Use This Wisdom Today

  1. Recognize what could be stopping from you accepting advice.
  2. Understand how to recognize good advice from bad.
  3. Use this wisdom to help others.

I-Overcome Your Pride
Perhaps the biggest obstacle that keeps us from accepting advice is our own pride. There are many reasons for this — it could be that we feel like we should be able to figure things out for ourselves, or we foolishly believe our ideas are always better than anyone else’s, or we are embarrassed to ask for help because we don’t want to appear stupid, etc.

Regardless of the reason, the important thing to understand is that when you allow pride to stop you from listening to advice, you end up making your life more difficult than it needs to be because you limit yourself to only one solution source — you! The fact is that nobody knows everything and the sooner you and I realize that, the sooner we’ll know it’s foolish to let our pride stand in the way of gaining knowledge from others.

I know it’s hard, but the next time you find yourself in a situation that you know you could use help with, do yourself a favor, swallow your pride, and be open to letting someone help you.  You’ll be glad you did.

II-Recognize Good Advice
Now that I have you at least willing to listen to advice, let me throw you a curveball – not all advice is good advice and it’s important to have some guidelines for sifting out the good from the bad.

Perhaps the most important thing for you to do is to recognize the SOURCE of the advice – is the advice coming from someone who truly cares about you? If so, then it’s worth your while to at least listen. If not, move on. However, even if the advice is coming from a person you trust, that still doesn’t mean it’s going to help you.  You can recognize good advice by asking yourself a few questions.

Here are some examples…

  1. Is the person giving you advice qualified to provide it based on their own life experiences?
  2. Did the person listen to you and attempt to understand your situation before giving you advice?
  3. Does the advice give you realistic options that you feel motivated to pursue?
  4. Are you certain the person giving the advice is not just trying to take advantage of you?
  5. Does the advice still leave the final decision in your hands?
  6. Does the advice make sense and do you feel good about it in your gut?

These questions are just examples; I encourage you to develop ones that make sense to you — come up with a list of simple and easy to remember questions that you can ask yourself when you are presented with advice. If the advice provided overcomes these Challenge Questions then it’s probably worth listening to.

Remember this — just because you listen to someone’s advice doesn’t mean you necessarily have to follow it — the final decision on what to do remains with you.

One bonus of seeking that advice is that you’ll have more confidence when you do take action to tackle your problem because you’ll know you invested extra time to seek wisdom and that extra confidence could be the final key you need to overcome your obstacle.

III-Provide Good Advice to Others
Let’s face it, the world needs more people who are willing to help others. I encourage you to be one of them.

If you find yourself in a situation where you have the opportunity to give advice to someone else and you have the knowledge you believe could help them, then why not do it? You never know when your words could change or even save somebody’s life so don’t ignore helping someone if you can. That being said, it’s important that you give good advice not just any advice. But how?

For starters, you can apply the Challenge Questions from #2 above to yourself. In addition, you can use this simple formula: Listen First, Advise Second. After all, how can you give advice to someone if you don’t listen and understand their situation? Once you do that you’ll be in a position to know if you can truly help them. If you can, then give them your advice, but be sure to respect their right to accept it or not – understand your job is only to share wisdom, the final decision rests with them.

But what if you listen and realize that you can’t give them any helpful advice? That’s ok. You can still encourage them, pray with them, and perhaps point them towards someone else who can help them. It would be better to do this than to give them questionable advice because you are too proud or scared to admit you don’t know the answers either. Part of giving good advice is knowing your own limitations – recognize that and you’ll come full circle in understanding this lesson.

Don’t Wait, Use This Wisdom TODAY…

Pick a problem, any problem, then challenge yourself to ask someone you trust for advice.


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Get Wisdom! Get Wealth! (The Solomon Series)

Solomon’s 10th Commandment
Thou shalt use thy wisdom to acquire thy wealth, and thy wealth to acquire more wisdom.


(Editor’s note: This article is part of a series of life lessons that feature the wisdom of King Solomonvisit this page to see more)


The King is back and today’s lesson is one of the key pillars of his entire philosophy. I’d venture to say this little nugget was a big part of how Solomon became one of the richest men of his day and one of the wisest of all time.

Learn this wisdom yourself, apply it to your life, and you’ll surely put yourself on the path to living your best life now.

Wealth Comes from Wisdom

“By wisdom, a house is built, through understanding it is established, and through knowledge, its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.” (Proverbs 24: 3-4)

Take a moment to let that sink in. I’ve read this quote from Solomon more times than I can count. It’s one of my all-time favorite proverbs and I actively try to live this principle as part of my daily routine. I’m hopeful that by sharing it with you today, you can make it a part of your life and soar to new heights.

Let’s dig deeper into this wisdom to unlock its mysteries. There’s a lot more than meets the eye with this quote. Consider the following…

Wisdom: The foundation

Without sufficient wisdom, everything you are building will be naught but a house of cards, doomed to fall when the storms of life inevitably come.

Build upon a solid foundation and you’ll increase your odds of success. Build on the shifting sands, or worse yet skip the foundation building stage, and your house will surely fall. This concept was so important that Jesus also warned us about the importance of building a solid foundation his parable about The Wise and Foolish Builders.

No matter what you’re building make wisdom your foundation. With wisdom in place, your house/financial portfolio/career/life will have its capstone in place from which you can confidently move forward. Without that basic foundation, you’ll flail around and eventually fold.

Understanding: The walls and roof.

Laying down a solid foundation is great, but it takes more than that alone to build a house. We need to erect the walls and a roof too. As you continue forwards, it’s important to keep learning, by doing so you’ll gain a new understanding that you can use to not just survive but thrive.

The result: you’ll firmly establish yourself, even as others fall by the wayside.

Why do so many people have so little savings? Why do most businesses fail? Why do so many give up on their dreams? Because most of us don’t take the time to establish a foundation based on wisdom, nor do we continue to invest in our understanding to advance our skill stack.

With a weak foundation and lack of advanced understanding, we become also-rans in the never-ending rat race of mediocrity. Our money sprouts wings and flies away. Our business loses out to competition. Our dreams fade.

But it doesn’t have to be this way — Solomon knew about these dangers and implored his readers to do something about it.

“Get Wisdom! Get Understanding!”

He wrote in Proverbs 4:5, for the wise king knew that these were the building blocks of long-term success, the keys to creating a lasting legacy.

Knowledge: The Treasure inside

Build with wisdom. Advance with Understanding. Continue to invest in yourself and eventually you’ll reach a stage of mastery where you’ll acquire special knowledge that will reward you with true prosperity. You’ll enjoy those rare and beautiful treasures that King Solomon was speaking about.

Does it take effort to acquire such knowledge? Certainly. But that’s the price that must be paid if you want to build a lasting legacy – one based on the time-tested pillars of Wisdom, Understanding, and Knowledge.

You can’t build a house like this overnight, but if you put to use these tools and have the patience to allow them time to work their magic in your life, you will be handsomely rewarded. You portfolio with become recession-proof, your career will prosper, your businesses will soar.

From Wisdom: Wealth

From a strictly financial point of view, we can use this wisdom to build wealth. For most of us, it takes time to build our family’s wealth. Relying on winning the lottery or get rich quick schemes is a recipe that will lead to poverty for most people because even if they work, any money you make will soon be gone. Solomon warned us about this too…

“Of what use is money in the hands of a fool since he has no desire to get wisdom?” (Proverbs 17:16)

Don’t be that fool. Instead, take the time to acquire wisdom before you chase after wealth. You’ll be glad you did. Learn about the benefits of budgeting, money management, saving, basic investing – this will be your foundation of wisdom. As you acquire some wealth, use it to gain even more wisdom. Invest in your financial education. Spend some money on surrounding yourself with trusted advisors (accountants, lawyers, financial planners, etc). Outsource menial tasks so you can get the highest ROI for your time.

Practice what you’ve learned, keep striving to learn more, and be disciplined and prudent, and over time your eyes will open to hidden knowledge that will help you truly understand how to make the most of your money so that you can live a life of financial freedom.

I’m not suggesting that you have to be super rich to be fulfilled, only that you should strive to have enough wisdom such that you are the ruler of your money and not vice versa – regardless of how much you earn, any of us can achieve this if we acquire the knowledge necessary to live in this manner.

It’s been proven time and time again – it’s not how much you make, but how much you keep. With wisdom, you can keep more of whatever you make so that you can enjoy the treasures of life that are most meaningful to you.

What is your Wealth?

Solomon’s wisdom applies to more than just finances or building the proverbial house. We could substitute any number of other endeavors – building a career, learning a sport/musical instrument, and even the concept of building the best version of YOU there can be. Let’s talk about the you in You.

If you want to live the best life possible, you’ll need to become the best YOU possible.

How do you build the best you?

By using wisdom to build a solid foundation within your life. Once you’ve done that, you can continue to learn about yourself and your world and gain the understanding you need to establish your place in life (for example discovering your mission or deciding what you want your life’s legacy to be all about).

Having built a foundation of wisdom by knowing yourself, and then gaining the understanding necessary to truly know your life’s mission, you’ll be on your way to living a life fulfilled – and when you take action each day to fulfill your mission, you’ll end up acquiring the deepest knowledge of all about yourself, that in turn, will start filling you with knowledge you could never have fathomed in the beginning: that rare and beautiful treasure will be YOU.

With wisdom as your guide, you’ll gain a sense of personal fulfillment and a conscious confidence that you are living your life’s destiny. Best of all, by becoming the best you possible, you’ll put yourself in a position to change the world by helping others too.

And it all starts with wisdom!

Whatever you are building, be sure to use Wisdom as your foundation. If you need help finding wisdom, just open King Solomon’s Book of Proverbs to pretty much any page, And I’m confident it will give you understanding that will improve your life!

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What do a Rooster, Lion, Goat, and King have in common?

Here’s a bit of humor from Proverbs…

“There are three things that are stately in their stride, four that move with stately bearing: a lion, mighty among beasts, who retreats before nothing; a strutting rooster, a he-goat, and a king with his army around him.” (Prov 30:29-31)

 

Did you know?
Although this saying is from Proverbs it’s not attributed to King Solomon, but instead it’s from Chapter 30 which is filled with “The Sayings of Agur.” There’s quite a bit of humor in this chapter as well as some very zen-like questions as well so be sure to check it out.

FOCUS on the right path in life and GOOD things will follow

Today’s lesson is another piece of wisdom from Solomon, who said in Proverbs 4: 23-27…

Above all else, GUARD YOUR HEART for it is the wellspring of your life. Put away perversity from your mouth, keep corrupt talk from your lips. Let your eyes look straight ahead, FIX YOUR GAZE directly before you. Make LEVEL PATHS for your feet and take only ways that are fir. DO NOT SWERVE to the right or the left, KEEP YOUR FOOT from evil.

I added the emphasis in order to draw your attention to King Solomon’s commands — these words of wisdom are powerful instructions if we only listen. Solomon begins by telling us to guard our hearts from perversity and corruption (which I think most people will agree is common sense). But for me the real pearls are what follows – look straight ahead, fix your gaze, take level paths, do not swerve, keep our foot from evil – these are the secret to living the righteous life, the one that will put us on the path to freedom. It’s so simple — if we just DO IT.

Most of all I love the phrase “take only ways that are firm” – this applies to so much in life: from making wise investments, to prudent prepping against natural disasters, to finding the right job and friends in life so we don’t go off track. This wisdom has so much to offer it’s worth its wait in gold!

The Wise and Foolish Builders

Jesus said, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand.  The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

Gospel of Matthew 7:24-27

There is no guarantee of Tomorrow. Don’t Wait to Enjoy Your Life

We’ve talked with each other about this subject in the past, but I was re-reading a passage today in Ecclesiastes that was so powerful I had to share it with you. Understand this – we are all going to die. Yes, it’s a shame, but it’s also the truth. And the sooner we accept the fact that our time in this world is but a breath before we are gone, the sooner we can understand that NOW is the time to LIVE – not just to get by or hope for better things at some point in the future, but to live with PASSION in THIS moment. The title of this article may be a cliche but that’s ok – so long as you get the message – tomorrow is NOT a certainty, the only thing you know for sure is that you are alive, right here, right now – so make the most of it and DO WHAT YOU LOVE.

embrace-the-challenge

Here is the quote from King Solomon that I wanted to share with you…

(Eccl 9:1-10) And Solomon said, “So I reflected on all this and concluded that…all [men] share a common destiny — the righteous and the wicked, the good and the bad…The same destiny overtakes all. The hearts of men are full of madness while they live, and afterward they join the dead. Anyone who is living has hope…For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing, and even the memory of them is forgotten. Their love, their hate, their jealousy will all vanish; never again will they have a part in anything that happens under the sun.

Therefore, go, eat your food with gladness, and drink your win with a joyful heart, for it is NOW that God favors what you do. Enjoy life…all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life…Whatever your hand finds to do, DO IT NOW WITH ALL YOUR PASSION, for in the grave, there is [nothing]…”

I realize that reading like is a bit like a kick in the gut, but hopefully this kind of straight talk will reach you where it counts and get you to TAKE ACTION to pursue your passions. God has blessed you with ability and dreams. Use those gifts to make your life and the lives of those you love better. Live the best life you can right now.

 

What is your Daily Bread?

Lately I’ve been finding new ways to think about what Jesus meant when he spoke to his disciples in Matthew 6:11 and “Give us this day our daily bread…” Since the wisdom gained from this pondering has added some enjoyment to my life, I thought I’d share it with you and see if it can help you too.

dailybread

Certainly the obvious answer to the question, ‘what is Daily Bread?’ is that it’s simply the food we need for our sustenance, without which we wouldn’t survive very long. But is there something more to the story? Can the concept of “Daily Bread” help us appreciate our lives and all that God has provided to us beyond just the basic concept of food? I believe so.

For me, Daily Bread has actually come to mean spending time with my family — being totally engaged with them and truly enjoying life in the present (and precious) moments that we share together each day. On those days that I am able to enjoy Daily Bread with my family, I find myself intensely happier and more satisfied with life. On those days that, for whatever reason, I am not able to connect with my family (whether that be because of work obligations, illness, etc), I find myself unfulfilled. That’s why when I say the Lord’s prayer now, when I get to the part about Daily Bread, I visualize my family (ok to be specific I actually visualize us sitting at the table eating an enjoyable meal together so the concept of food is still there – haha). I earnestly pray for this God’s favor in granting me the opportunity to enjoy this Daily Bread each day and I am grateful when the prayer turns into a reality.

I wonder – what is YOUR Daily Bread? Is it similar to mine or do you have another ‘want’ that makes you happy?

Did you know that the Book of Proverbs also addresses this topic? Chapter 30: 8-9 states “Give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread. Otherwise I may have too much and disown you and say “Who is the Lord?” OR I may become poor and steal and so dishonor your name.” I often think about the wisdom of these words and the perspective it provides on the scale of importance between the quest for money vs. the need for daily bread.

maslows_hierarchy_of_needsThere’s one final piece to the puzzle that I find interesting and it comes from the psychologist Abraham Maslow who gave us his famous “Hierarchy of Needs” shown here. One could make the argument that wherever you are currently at on Maslow’s pyramid of needs fulfillment, perhaps that is what you would consider to be your Daily Bread? If that’s true, it’s possible I am right in the middle where the relationship needs sit and given the importance of my family to my happiness I may well remain there my entire life. However I tend to think there is room for the concept of Daily Bread to encompass more than just one level of the needs pyramid.

What do you think? Where on the pyramid is your most important Daily Bread right now? Do you think it changes over time?

Thanks for visiting with me today. I hope you enjoyed the discussion.

 

 

 

Is PERFECTION Your ENEMY?

Wouldn’t it be great if whatever we desired to achieve we could do perfectly?

It’s a nice thought, but unfortunately it’s rarely our reality. Yet, all too often we hold ourselves to unrealistic expectations. Tell me if this sounds like you — how many times have you said, “if I can’t do it perfectly, then I’m not going to do it at all.” I will admit that I’ve been guilty of this more times than I can count and I’ll bet that you have been too.

HOWEVER there’s a big problem with perfection – it’s possible that your desire for perfection is holding you back from accomplishing your goals and achieving some truly great things in life.

perfection

King Solomon recognized the dangers of trying to be perfect and/or to wait for external events to be ‘just right.’ Consider the following words of wisdom…

(Eccl 11:3-4) “If clouds are full of water, they pour rain…Whether a tree falls to the south or to the north, in the place where it falls, there it will lie. Whoever watches the wind will not plant; whoever looks at the clouds will not reap.” (Don’t wait for things to be perfect, just get started and make the best of it).

(Prov 22:13) “The sluggard says there is a lion outside! or I will be murdered in the streets!” (You can always come up with an excuse, how about instead coming up with a reason to get moving?).

(Prov 14:23) “Hard work leads to profit, but mere talk only to poverty.” (Work brings results, talking doesn’t pay the bills).

(Eccl 5:7) “Much dreaming and many words are meaningless. therefore stand in awe of ACTION.” (You’ll never turn your dreams into a reality if you don’t take action).

What it is you want to achieve, don’t wait – DO SOMETHING to move forward today. The longer you wait the get started on your dreams, the farther away they will become – until eventually they may just fade away forever. But that doesn’t have to be you – because you have the power to do anything you set your mind to… all you have to do is GET STARTED.

Fear-of-FailureFor more on this topic, be sure to read…

Fail Your Way to Success, where you’ll read about specific examples of famous people like Michael Jordan, Thomas Edison, and may more who didn’t let perfection stop them from being great.